Divorce can feel like it drags on forever—but how long does it really take? Whether you’re just beginning to explore your options or already in the middle of the process, understanding what to expect (and how to move things forward) can make all the difference.
At Not Quite Done With Divorce, we believe knowledge is power. That’s why we spoke with a local legal expert to help break down divorce timelines, key legal steps, and strategies for avoiding delays.
For this article, we interviewed Drake Larson, a family law attorney with Gasper Law Group in Colorado Springs.
What Is the Minimum Divorce Timeline in Colorado?
Colorado law requires a minimum of 91 days from the time your spouse is officially served with divorce papers until a divorce can be finalized. Even if both parties agree on everything, the court must wait out the 91-day period before issuing the final decree.
That said, most divorces take longer—sometimes much longer. “In Colorado Springs,” says Drake Larson, “the average divorce takes about 8 to 10 months. Some can stretch to a year or more, depending on how complex the case is and how willing both sides are to cooperate.”
The Divorce Process: Key Legal Steps
Every divorce is unique, but most cases follow the same general flow:
1. Filing and Service
- File a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage, Case Information Sheet, and Summons.
- Serve your spouse (via sheriff, process server, or certified mail).
- The 91-day clock starts once service is complete.
2. Discovery
- Exchange required financial documents such as tax returns, pay stubs, and bank statements.
- In complex cases, this may involve appraisals of property, businesses, or other assets.
- If parenting time is involved, professional evaluations may also be required.
3. Negotiation & Mediation
- Informal negotiations often begin through the attorneys.
- Mediation is typically required by the court to help reach agreements without trial.
4. Final Orders Hearing
- If issues remain unresolved, the case goes to a final hearing.
- Due to court backlogs (especially in El Paso County), this can be scheduled months out.
What Slows Down a Divorce?
According to Attorney Drake Larson, several key factors can delay your divorce:
1. Complexity
- More assets, more documentation, more professionals involved = more time.
- Parenting plans and child evaluations can also extend the timeline.
2. Lack of Cooperation
- One party dragging their feet, avoiding communication, or missing deadlines slows everything down.
- If either side is unresponsive, the court may have to issue warnings or reschedule hearings.
3. Court Backlogs
- In El Paso County and other busy areas, final hearings can take months to get on the docket.
How Can You Speed Up the Divorce Process in Colorado?
If you’re hoping to move forward more quickly, here are some strategies to consider:
- Stay organized. Complete your paperwork and meet deadlines.
- Be open to compromise. Most cases are resolved faster when both sides are willing to negotiate.
- Consider private mediation. Hiring a private mediator allows more time and flexibility to reach an agreement outside the crowded court system.
- Use a private judge or arbitrator. These professionals can issue binding decisions without the delays of the public court calendar.
- Work with professionals. An experienced divorce attorney can help you navigate the system efficiently and protect your interests.
“Understand that the fastest way to end a case is through compromise,” says Larson, “but that doesn’t mean rolling over. There’s a balance between being open-minded and standing up for what’s fair.”
What Happens After the Judge Signs the Divorce Decree?
Once the judge signs your divorce decree, your marriage is officially over—but you’re not quite done yet.
Here are a few important steps to take after divorce:
- Update your insurance. Health, life, and auto policies may need to be changed.
- Revise your will and estate plan. Don’t leave outdated beneficiaries in place.
- If you changed your name, take your court order to the appropriate government office to update your records.
- Meet with a financial advisor or tax professional to assess any changes to your income, taxes, or investments.
- Start complying with court orders. These may include property transfers, refinancing homes, updating bank accounts, or support payments.
Drake recommends printing your decree and going through it with a highlighter. “Some final orders are 30–40 pages long. Specific instructions are easy to miss—and missing them can create real legal and financial problems down the line.”
Final Advice from a Divorce Attorney
“This is one of the most important transitions in your life,” says Larson. “While legal services are an investment, they’re worth it. And most attorneys offer a free consultation—take them up on it. Ask questions about your specific situation and get clear on your next steps.”
About The Expert
Drake Larson, Attorney, Gasper Law Group
📍 101 N Cascade Avenue, Suite 100 A, Colorado Springs, CO 80903
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